“Baba bear, why can I think of a voice or a song or a story but not able to actually make that voice or sing or tell the story from my mouth? Like now, I can very clearly hear inside my mind how a peacock calls out to peahens but I can’t make that sound. Why is that, Baba?”
I thought this should be easy to answer: Just because you can imagine it does not mean you can do it. But when I started to articulate the ‘why?’ behind that, I am unable to explain it to an ‘almost-seven-years-old’. It seems I am facing the exact same issue as the one she wants to know the reason behind.
As they say, if you can’t explain something to a child, you don’t know it yourself.
So, my friends, help me out here. What should I tell her? Indeed, what the reason (and it needs to be arrived at from first principles) that I can’t do everything I can think of, because at the end of it, reality is something my brain is modelling and interpreting on a real-time basis. That’s why dreams feel so real. So, if my brain can see/hear/smell/feel something so clearly, why can’t it reproduce it in a way to fool my…well, brain?
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This is my space. To ramble, rant, or ruminate. You are welcome to join me. You can see more of me here. I am an IAF+Air India brat (my father and my kid brother, both have donned the wings of the Indian Air Force) growing up in cantonments across the nation, and attending 12 schools before graduating as an Electrical Engineer from Pune University in 1994.
I speak, read, and write English, Hindi, and Marathi (in that order of proficiency), and am very active on social media (mainly Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn and lately, Threads and YouTube too), though I do not engage beyond first or at most second level comments. My philosophy for writing can be found here.
Professionally, I am consulting with young people heading their own startups. If you are a startup and need an impartial Entrepreneur-in-Residence to bounce your ideas off, get practical advice from, and basically have around for the 33 years of hard-earned experience in starting up, running, and even shutting down companies, then I am your man. To start a conversation, mail me here.
Personally, I am deeply and passionately engaged in educating (and learning with) my daughter (who was born on my 42nd birthday!) in a non-formal setting and chronicling her (and my) journey. Indeed, unlike most kids who want to become pilots and firemen, actors and doctors, and so on, during my childhood, when I was asked what I’d want to be when I grew up, I’d always answer, ‘Father.’ So, in a way, I am living my dream. I consider myself the luckiest man on Earth (until life is discovered on other planets).
In my spare time, I love to ride/drive, travel, try different foods, watch movies (I love murder mysteries, war movies, and heists), read (mostly non-fiction), debate, and sometimes play golf or squash, or if it’s low enough stakes, poker.
I am politically promiscuous, in the sense that I do not follow a specific political or social party or leader but, from instance-to-instance, choose the argument (and hence, the side making that argument) that best suits my ideological stance of secular humanism. You can find my posts about politics here.
I love dogs and horses (though it’s been a rather long time since I rode one) and am an avid biker with a Royal Enfield 650 Interceptor, who I call BattleCat III. Follow my travels and travails on the bike here.
About my opinions, they are how I like my morning tea: extra strong, piping hot, somewhat dark, grounded in earthy aromas and spices, something that instantly wakes you up, and served without standing on ceremony.
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